Hmmm....but then its like more should be given to them such as classroom support assistants, but if anyone mentions that then the first thing the school will say is we dont have the funding so teachers got no choice but to struggle on.

i just wanted to out at my kids school,i really want to be a foster parent but i cant.only have a 3 bed house

Ohh . You own it or rent?
I have thought about fostering in the past when l was single, l think its very rewarding but you need to be prepared for anything.
Do you rent or is it your own house?

we rent,i have asked for a 4 bed but there very few

Hmm its not easy to find housing. I mean there are lots of people letting out properties but when it comesz to the standard it s below average.
It disgusts you. The number of places we saw before we found this...l cant remember and the state they were in it was absolutely shocking.

i know what you mean,im trying to sell a 3 bed house

God luck hun. As far as l know people are not taking any big changes in their choice of life what withthe recession.
But fingers crossed for ya. x

id of had it sold by now but my brother is being a pain

What's he got to do with you selling your house? x

its are inhertace,its between me and my brother.hes being awkward and wont talk to me

ooh dear..wot is the saying? mney is the root of all . i totaly agree wiv tht. if u dont have enuf pple not happy, n if u do still there isnt no happiness.

i just want the house sold,the debts are mounting up.i just dont know what to do

its ver stressful. can imagine how you feel. in this year 2009 we have moved 5 houses {no kidding}, and not only has it cost us but the stress is something we cud of done without. we also have debt which we are paying off senbly each month. hence why umer is now working 6 nights instead of 5. plus l am for my crb to arrive by post, and soon sa l get it l'll be on the phone to the agency and doing weeknd work with them. if l were to go into what we have been through this year you wud b mea shocked.
so we're being positive and telling ourselves that 2010 will be our year. so roll on 2009.
cant you do any work in the house or anything?

weve lived her for over 6 years,love the house but bad area.we cant move at the mo.cant afford to move as weve got loads of debts to.once ive sold my dads house,we can pay are debts off,theres debts for the house to.council tax,gas,electricty.even though its an empty house,my brother doesnt understand this.

That is sad to hear. Some people can be soo difficult and not understanding. Have you not tried to get another relative to speak some sense to him? x